Let’s Gett Serious Podcast

Episode 12: Interview with Attorney Eliana Baer

Today I bring you a really fascinating interview with the one and only Eliana Baer, a frum female divorce lawyer based in New Jersey - a notably the first female guest on this podcast.
 
We speak about men’s issues when it comes to divorce, including the interplay with religious considerations. We speak about what’s killing frum marriages: lack of education, in-laws, religiosity, materialism and other things. We talk about how to achieve an amicable divorce (do not go to court unless you have to!), some interesting legal cases and even legal issues to consider before getting married.  
 
Important Spoiler Alert for father: Eliana highly recommends that you, NEVER leave your marital residence or the children until litigation is settled, and DO NOT finalize the divorce with a Gett until everything is settled.
 
Just an editorial note: I recorded this episode before a couple of recent New Jersey appellate court rulings came out that have big implications for religious divorce cases so I definitely hope to have Eliana back on to talk about those.
 
But for now, let’s cue the intro and get to the episode.
Links & Resources mentioned in the show:
 
Dovid Bashevkin 18Forty Episode about couples with different religious views: https://18forty.org/podcast/aliza-and-ephraim-bulow-when-a-spouse-loses-faith/
How to reach Eliana:
Email: etbaer@foxrothschild.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eliana-baer-4188551/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elianatbaeresq/
Blog: https://www.foxrothschild.com/eliana-baer/nj-family-law-blog

Episode 11 #NGL: The Mikva Strike and Confusion of FlatbushGirl's supporters

In this episode, Nathan talks about the FlatbushGirl "Mikva Strike" and the worldview of FlatbushGirl and her supporters.
 
You can watch the referenced Mislaibeled episode here:
https://twitter.com/FrumTikTok/status/1765431063373918511

Episode 10: Resuming in the Wake of October 7th

We've been on hiatus as our attention was turned toward the situation in Israel and for Jews around the world. Thank God, the situation has somewhat stabilized, and we are for the most part back to our daily lives. Unfortunately this means divorces are continuing. I comment on this and the reaction - or lack thereof - to the massacre in the divorce world.

Episode 9: Professor Ben Hine Discusses Family Breakdown and Alienation

In this episode we go to the United Kingdom, to speak to Dr. Ben Hine, a professor of applied psychology, a researcher and author who has extensive experience in the areas of family breakdown, divorce, and alienation. I’m very excited to bring this to you as our first “professional” episode, as opposed to a personal story episode, hopefully the first of many.
 
In this episode, I ask Professor Hine to teach us precisely what PA is, how it works, if it’s real science or a possible hoax (like FlatbushGirl claims), how do we know it’s not just proof that one of the parents is a bad parent, how the system can be improved and what we can do as a community. 
 
Besides his work studying parental alienation, Dr. Hine is a victim of it himself, and he shares his personal story with us as well. 
 
Professor Hine’s website: https://www.uwl.ac.uk/staff/ben-hine
 
Professor Hine’s Book: https://www.amazon.ca/Parental-Alienation-Contemporary-Practitioners-Policymakers/dp/B0C9KMYD27
Professor Hine on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ProfHine

Episode 8: #NGL FlatbushGirl Represents Some of the Frum Community’s View on Parental Alienation

Inauguration of a new episode type: #NGL - Nathan Gettisberg Live
On this episode, I discuss the FlatbushGirl appearance on the Mislaibeled podcast, which you can watch here: https://youtu.be/Fy_rRV6pUeU?t=6331
 

Episode 7: Josh’s Story

Josh shares his painful experience through extreme parental alienation. Josh is an active community member, an EMT, a mentor, a support group leader, a husband and a father - but he has not had meaningful contact with his children from his first marriage in years.   
Josh shares his personal story and also his expertise on the terrible phenomenon of PA and gives us an understanding of what it really is, how it works, how the layperson can understand the psychology and what we can do as a community to combat it.

Season 2 Intro

Yes, that's right - finally. We are back with a second season of unique interviews and content on the topics of marriage, divorce and parenting from the perspective of the frum man. The aim is to bring you 1 or 2 high quality interviews per month

Episode 5: Ronen’s Story

A wonderful conversation with Ronen, talking about his journey as a Baal Teshuva, through a long marriage, a rocky but ultimately happy divorce, and about how he sees things in our community.
 
https://lgspodcast.com/

Episode 4: Aaron’s Story

An heavy episode about parental alienation and the loss of a child
 
lgspodcast.com

Episode 3: Yaakov’s Story

LGSPodcast.comIn this episode I interview Yaakov.